A while back my pharmacist saw my deadname on my profile and accidentially called it out, he corrected and deleted my deadname from the system so only my preferred name shows up now. There was a crowd of people behind me, so as he hands over the pills he apologized, in equal tone and volume as when he called my deadname and lied saying it’s been a long day and he didn’t mean to call out -his own- name. I quietly told him it was fine and he didn’t need to do that for my sake.
His response: “No, it’s my name now.”
I went to the pharmacist yesterday, his nametag is my deadname. He informed me he’s immigrating and in the process he’s changed his first name to my deadname to have an English sounding name. That’s why he’s now able to get a reprint of his nametag to be my deadname. And repeated, with the intense seriousness of someone who is going to die on this hill: “It’s mine now. Not yours. I’m taking.” His tone indicated that decision is final.
Bro literally deadnamed me once, and has committed to flat out stealing my deadname. It’s his now. Legally. Officially. I over heard his co-workers call him by the name.
There’s also an absurd amount of comments that are basically just “FAE!!!!!” And I’m now dying and it’s your fault. My blood is on your hands.
in a better world we’d be able to talk to whales. we’d have giant whale cleaning facilities where we get rid of parasites and treat illnesses for them and in exchange marine biologists would get to interview them about their lives during the cleaning
We will cohabitate with the whale. We will restructure society around whale healthcare. This is basic fucking social democracy, people.
between the seattle mariners etsy witch and the jezebel etsy witch maybe magic is real… im sorry etsy witches the ones who kept stealing protected feathers to sell online really gave you such a bad name
quick reminder that you’re actually not obliged to feel any empathy for someone who would have described your death as ‘necessary’ if the exact same thing had happened to you
he would dance on your grave if he had the chance and i am 100% sure of that. it almost doesn’t even matter who you are. his memory is not worth offering an iota of your sympathy or grief
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ariella_feed) wrote2025-09-10 08:46 pm
